HUMAN BEINGS AND ADAPTATION
MAkhluk hidup ituwh punya kemampuan beradaptasi. Manusia sebagai makhluk sosial juga punya kemampuan untuk beradaptasi dengan perubahan dalam lingkar sosial in which they participate. Anak2 Mahasiswa Baru butuh adaptasi and all sorts of adjustment with college life, be it subjects or new friends. Orang yang dulunyah single and then punya relationship juga menyesuaikan diri dengan relationship barunya ituwh. Orang yang pindah ke lingkungan baru juga butuh untuk menyesuaikan diri dengan orang2 lain yang ada di lingkungan baru ituwh. semuanya memang tampak cliche, tapi it’s not always that simple karena orang2 juga ternyata punya kemampuan beradaptasi yang berbeda-beda.. ada yang benar2 flexible, ada yang reluctant, dan ada yang resistant. My friend told me that she wanted to be more honest from now on and admitted that she’d had some kind of discussion with my other friend about me having a relationship. And then she apologized for talking about me behind my back, well… being a forgiving person that I am, of course I forgive her. And I do apreciate that she wanted to be honest with me. There’s no need to fuss, because I know I’m pretty open-minded myself.. and of course I always apreciate honesty. Well, they talked about this radical change that I have and my other friend didn’t seem to like it or whatever. Here’s the thing… of course things have changed. I am not single anymore, while they had always been used to having me around all the time and stayed single .. and had all the time in the world for them. Well, of course it’s not like that anymore. And it WILL NEVER BE LIKE THAT ANYMORE. Because my single life is over, and my adaptation is getting used to having a guy by my side and set aside time for him. While, my friendship is also important but I can’t stay single so that they don’t have to deal with anything that changes with my self. I just can’t do that. And I absolutely wouldn’t want to have to choose between my relationship and my friendship. Because both are important. I just hope that both sides would understand how much they ALL mean to me. I just hope that my friends could understand me but I am not hoping for too much because right now, my life is different. I am not that single girl who would dedicate her entire life to unromantic stuff anymore. Because I admit, I need that romance. And I need my friendship. I just wish that my friends would understand that I’m trying to juggle everything. I can still be thankful to my loving and supportive boyfriend and the very few friends who still understand me. anyway, It’s impossible to ask someone to really understand your situation if they have never actually been in the situation. Apalagi if they’re not open-minded, so shallow that they would only think that what they think is the only thing that’s right.
