ARE YOU FRIEND OR FOE?
"we used to love one another, give to each other, lie undercover, are you friend or foe?" Sometimes, I still wonder… siapa yah yang bisa bener2 sy sebut teman? … but before I go on any further… I have to define what is a friend to me. Seorang teman *in my definition* adalah: - seseorang yang most of the time selalu ada when I need them dan merupakan orang2 yang jarang mengecewakankuwh, terus tentunya they are not backstabbers [alias:orang-orang yang suka "menusuk dari belakang"] - seorang teman ituwh tentunyah selalu bisa ngerti sama keadaan temannya. - A true friend can also tell the much-needed truth to their friends and would not cover so that they will always have a great image to their friends. - My true friends would also stand by me in any condition, they will stand behind my choice although they don’t agree with my choice. Always supportive, I might say. - They would honestly tell me if I’ve made bad decisions, misalnya kalo a certain outfit actually makes me look fatter than I already am, in subtle ways, of course… de el el.. yang jelas, seorang true friend nda bakalan menjerumuskan temannya sendiri so that kesalahan yang sebenarnya ada pada dirinyah tidak nampak. hm… I heard a few stories today and it really upset me because it upset someone that I consider my true friend… and all the drama that came with it. Sy cuma mo bilang, bahwa sometimes orang-orang yang kita anggap teman bisa menjadi orang-orang yang pull us down. We love them, but unfortunately mereka might not care about us the same way we care about them. So, what to do when things like that happen? Straighten things up and make sure that you’re not accusing someone for something that they never did. Tapi kalo ternyata mereka memang seperti ituwh, well there’s nothing you can do… but you CAN decide whether to stay CLOSE friends with them or not. It’s just that people -especiall girls- need to be careful with their feelings. It’s not always about boyfriends, sometimes what people whom you think are your friends can hurt you worse than any guy you date. So..just be careful, because it really is a jungle out there and it’s tough to decide who’s friend/foe. I just have to remember to be more careful who to share information to from now on…
